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Mashenka’s 18th Birthday

This is not how I wanted it to go down. Let me say that. Let me repeat that. Unfortunate things happened and I could not be there, despite my best efforts. It was Mashenka’s 18th birthday and I was going to be MIA. Not good. Like it or not, everything revolved around me: I would…

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More Wisdom Teeth to Go

Our teens love any kind of takeout food. Apparently, they love takeout teeth, too. Petya had his wisdom teeth removed, then Pasha, now it’s time for Mashenka, who turns 18 in another month. Straight down the birth line. So today’s her day. We drove most of the night in order that she could be in…

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Special Ed Help… But Only If You Ask Correctly

(Continued from “Spets Shkola” and “Genius Mode” blog posts from a few days ago.) So I wrote an e-mail asking our Individualized Education Plan team to reopen our case. How we even had an IEP team without an actual IEP was anyone’s guess…. I basically requested that the team gather their own data on our…

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Genius Mode: Learning the Language of Learning Disabilities

As homeschoolers, we apparently have very few rights. We pay taxes and ask nothing of the government, but when, for the past seven years, we sought some type of evaluation of our second son Pasha’s needs, one would think we had come down with leprosy to dare to ask for such a thing. Our family…

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Spets Shkola and Special Ed

Other than our oldest, who had not yet been shipped off to orphanage boarding school (the Internat, not to be confused with the internet), our other three kids experienced the Russian spets shkola. This would be similar to a special ed school where mentally-challenged and some physically-challenged children were gathered. However, in the Russian orphanage…

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Concrete -versus- Abstract Thinkers

Our second son, Pasha, may have some brain issues that affect the way he thinks. These could stem from fetal alcohol exposure and one of the areas it impacts has to do with concrete versus abstract thinking. Literal as opposed to theoretical. A figure of speech or else meaning exactly what is said. He generally…

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On Orphans and Rescue Dogs

Just recently, a number of acquaintances have passed away and as I searched my own photo archives for any possible pictures of them for their loved ones, I came across photos of our kids when they first came home. Amazing. Shocking. Night-and-day. All were cute, even in the Russian orphanage. Their hair and clothes appeared…

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Super-Lice, Simple Cure

They’re baaaack…. Super-lice are rumbling in half of the United States, some report, and coming soon to a city or town near you. As though these crazy storms were not enough…. What makes them “super” is their apparent resistance to the majority of medications and chemicals which worked only 15 years ago. The lice will…

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Planning A Secret Get-Away

Shhhh… the kids can’t know. Other than Petya, he’s the oldest and most mature, so he knows everything, lol. The others? Not so much. I’m planning a secret get-away, a short excursion not for me, not for us as the parents, but for the kids. So they know they’re doing something and it’s going to…

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My Newfound Positivity in Parenting

It’s across the board, I’m a semi-negative person. Maybe it’s too many years of editing everything from fashion ensembles to articles and proofing manuscripts to manners helps me pick up on problems first and foremost. I can see the tragedy and humor in just about everything. But not everyone comes from a melodramatic Russian-Jewish background…