“Tech support”, who shall remain nameless, decided not to put it up into cyberspace. Too controversial. Too over-the-top.
It was about triangulation in adoptees, how I as the mother am the persecutor, the source of all evil for one of our children, and how Benedetto is the rescuer, the one who can do no wrong. The child uses this strategy to keep the authority figures off balance and manipulate them.
Reality is hard to face. Most adoptive parents understand this. And when possible mental illness is the source of the entire family’s suffering, even worse.
So while one rages and tantrums and displays definite signs of being headed for the loony bin, it’s suggested that I not write about it. Might make “me” look bad.
Um-hmm. Just thought you’d want to know.
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